>ѡ 繤ӷդҧٻẺ
ӷդ㹡ǡѹ ͺ ʹ ֧ ֧ٴ ŧ ŧ
(John Lee) ¹˹ѧͪ The colors of love ¡ѡ͡ 6 Դ
1. Eros 繤ѡդ ͧդöҷѺؤŷѡ
2. Mania 繤 դͧ٧ ѡԴ纻Ǵ ФԵѧդͧäʹ㨨ҡա˹ҡҧ ش
3. Ludis 繤ѡ ѡɳФ¡ѺͧêС觢ѹ ʹͧŧͧ ͤ
4. Storge 繤ѡẺ 繤ѡʧҧʹԷ
5. Agape 繤ѡ ʹ
6. Pragma 繤ѡ ˵ؼ Ԩóҵ֡ͧ
ѡͧҷյͺؤŵҧ ֧繵ͧѹ ҨٻẺᵡҧѹ ѡ; ѡ١ ѡ ѡẺ˹ ѡѧлȪҵ
ηŴ (Hatfield and Walster) Ƕ֧ѡ 2 Դ
1. Passionate love 繤ѡդ ǹӤѭ ҧǢͧ 駤¹ ʹءʹҹç 纻Ǵ Եѧ ʺ Ф֧ǧ
2. Companionate love 繤 ѡẺԵդ١ѹ դ ǧʴҾͧѡ ѡẺعç¡
ջѨҧ餹Դ ѡؤ¢ Ԩ¾ ͡㹡Դѡ鹡ѺѨµҧ
1. Դ 繻ѨӤѭ Դѡѹ¢ Դѹͷӧҹѹ ֧ѡʹԷ 繤ѡ 觧ҹѹ 駹ФԴ餹͡ʼҹʺóҧ ѹҡ
2. ֧ٴ㨷ҧҾ ٻҧ˹ҵҴ ͡ʷ褹ŧѡ ҡҤ 駹Ф§觷褹任ö Фҹͧ ѡդ㨷դǧ˹ҵҴ աѡ§ ¤ͤՔ 繤Ք ·è֧ѡѺ蹪 ӼԴѺ
3. ͤ¡ѹ ѡͺ 觤¤֧ѹ 㨤 ҹ ҹʹá ʹ ਵ ˵ؼҨդ֡ öҡѹ¡ ҧҧҨͺѡɳᵡҧҡ ͧẺҡѹ ¡ѺõҾó
ѡͺؤŷդµͧ ҧ¡繡֡ҵͧ ҧ駤ѹҨչ¡ҷ㹤繨ԧ §ѺҤѡ ¡Ѻͧҡҷ繨ԧ ԴѹǡҨ餹ѡաûԺѵԵ ¹ਵ觢ա
㹡óշ褹ҧդʹ㨪ͺͤ ѡɳзҧҡ ѡդᵡҧѹҡ 駰ҹзҧѧ ɰԨ ֡ ͪҵ ͧҤԺ·˵ؼ§ 觺ҧҨ繴»ҧҧ㹨Եӹ֡ͧ
ѡ觷ͧԴ㹪Ե ͧءդѹѺآҾԵ ԴѺѡҡкؤ㹤ͺҧ ѡվѲҡ÷ҧԵ㨷 Ժ繤آҾԵ
آҾԵ ͧѡѺѡҧ ѡͧ ѡҵԾͧ ѡ ѡͧ ѡ١ѡ ʹѡš
ѡ ͪԧѧ 繤آҾԵҧ ѡվҸҾԴҡѲҡ
¹ѡҡ ö֧֡ѡͧʴ١ Ѻѡҧ ¹ѡҧ ǹ˭㹵 ѡ繤١ѹѺͧþ觾ԧ (dependency need)
¹ѡȵç çѺҧǹСͺ ѡͧ ѡ繾鹰ҹ ѧա˵ؼҡѡ ֧ѧԧѧѡ¹ŧ ѡẺ֧¡Ѻ Ҩ¡ҤѡẺ١عѢ (puppy love)
ѡ˵ؼ ԴͤվѲҡèز (maturity) ֧ѡԴԨó˵ؼ еѴԹѡؤŷ ѡẺ֧Ẻվ öԺ ֧ѡ§ѡ鹤 öͺҷ
ѡẺդ ѡԴҴѧ٧ ÷ҧǢͧ ѡԴѺʹ жһʺԴѧҨջԡعç
Դդѡ ѡԹͧ͡ѡ µͧҴѧ٧ԹͤԴѧҧ
Դѧ㹤ѡ ͡ѡ 繻ʺó褹ǹ˭¾Һҧ㹪Ե 軯ԡҵ͡͡ѡ ѡعçҨӡѴ
͡ѡЦҵǵ ԴФվҸҾ㹨Ե㨢ͧͧ ٻẺ Ѻѡҡ ֧ҤҴѧҡؤ зҡԹ ö١Ѵѡ Ҩ繡Ϳ鹤֡Ҷ١ѧ¨ (rejection) Դ鹫ǫա㹪Ե
ѡ繻ʺóӤѭͧԵ ҷء 繡ӤѭԵšԹ աҾѹ
ѡѡ ѡ㹷ҧҧä آҾԵըдդѺ
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